In Community of Property or Out? A month ago my 23-year-old younger brother posted a meme that has been doing the rounds on social media and… It is not a competition I know I promised to write a post on Community of Practice and Anti Nuptial contracts but this post was… Gift of Forgiveness – part 4 So this forgiveness series took longer than I had planned but I am not complaining instead, I enjoyed writing every… The Gift of Forgiveness (threshold) So you guys have been directing this series thus far and I quite like the engagement. Thank you so much… The gift of forgiveness (70×7) Hello again đ The number one question I was asked after my last post is: âwhat do we do with… The gift of forgiveness (1.1) Forgiveness is giving away your right to redress, yes let that sink in. It is the epitome of Christ’s ministry… Hello 2021 Happy new year darlings! Yes, I know it is the last day of January but I still have to wish… Birthday Post- Chapter 34 My grandmother tells me it was in the early hours of the morning that she took my mother to hospital… I AM SORRY LOVE THE KIDS MADE ME DO IT So wait, am I the only one apologising more than usual? As a family even though we live together we only… Faith like Thando’s Thando: âMy tummy is sore!â Me: âOkay, letâs pray for itâ Me after a short prayer: â Thando uright ?â… Do you know him? or of Him? First of all I would like to apologise for the silence, like everyone else I have been trying to make sense… Helping your child adjust to change I have been meaning to write for a while now but motherhood has had me questioning myself a lot lately.… Raise a Hallelujah – Our weapon is a melody If you did not know this by now, I am a music lover. Music connects with us in ways we… Start already!! So I have been struggling with my skin since I stopped breastfeeding and started taking contraceptives (too much information right?… Is my Helper coming back? So a year ago , on the 7th of January 2019 we met Nokuthula she has since become Phopho and… The amazing decade 18 January 2010 I started my internship at the National Treasury, it is also the day I met Sweet-One, he… Parenting during the Holidays So we left a week earlier than normal for December holidays in Port Shepstone due to a funeral we had… Starting from an advantage point So one of the Mondayâs at cell group we were reflecting on the Sunday’s sermon about leaving the familiar. People… Protect your intimacy So I recently wrote about (why we need time away) to reconnect with our spouses and it got me thinking… Who is the real enemy? By now you probably know my content is inspired by the word, sermons, music and LOVE. Today is no different,… ” FOR BETTER OR WORSE” ”For better or worse, I am in this for the long haul.” Those are the words i heard during my… Why you need time away Two years ago on our anniversary I was in a maternity ward with our two days old daughter Thandolwethu, needless… Marriage and Finances So one morning Aisha who has been married for 2 years now, sent me a message after I wrote something… Embracing every stage As women’s month drew to a close, I found myself appreciating the amazing force that is a Woman. We are… … but Not crushed âOur small car”, that’s what Phopho calls our Run-X. And this Saturday morning when he went to the garage he… What is the role of a helpmate? So listening to Michelle Obama made me think about equality and what it means for marriage. I immediately remembered a… Prayer is the “Plug” As the cool kids say prayer is the ‘plug’, it simply keeps you connected to the right frequency . So… Living in the moment – marriage is not doomed Live in the moment – It sounds like something you have heard a motivational speakers say, right? something out of… Shared Responsibility All parents have experienced it, the moment when you think âIâm not getting up this time he or she must… Black women’s relationship with sex “Lets talk about sex baby….” Being the only girl, and raised by  christian parents, saying my relationship with sex is… Weaning stages Guys weaning a baby of breast milk is hard  đ„ I breastfed our firstborn for about 17 months, the plan… Romance anyone? February is the one month where romance is the number one topic whether you are a romantic or not, it… Don’t stop now It turns out the more progress you make in your fast the more the enemy tries to distract you from… Reflections New yearâs eve I took Thandolwethu to my motherâs place because Sweet-One and I desperately needed to Dezemba even if… Dear Mom to be I recently went to a baby shower for one of the ladies who welcomed me at my husband’s church five… Brown Skin “I keep fighting voices in my mind that say Iâm not enough Every single lie that tells me I will… One day at a time So I finally understand the verse that says “So don’t worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will bring its own worries. Today’s… Pouring from an empty cup I recently went on a spa treatment with two of my friends and mom guilt came up. For those who… Getting back in rhythm The other day a friend was sharing how in winter he switches on the engine and lets it run for… Dating your spouse So, a day after date night I posted a video of myself singing “ngikuthandile by Vusi Nova” yes I can… How many do you have? So my boss came to work with an audio cd that he thought I would like, still not sure if… There ain’t no hood like motherhood As May draws to an end, I would like to reflect on motherhood and how it has changed me. I… The nanny struggle is REAL So, I wanted to post this on workers’ day but I couldn’t the kids kept me busy, and I was… Unsolicited Advise: Why do we give it? When I was pregnant with our first child I was surprised just how quick the conversation shifted from me to… When do you pray? I saw a quote which I liked on social media which said “Donât pray when you feel like it. Make… Are we a product of of our Environment or our Choices? On 22 August 2017 , the former statistician-general Pali Lehohla released the latest report of Poverty Trends in South Africa.… Family When it’s family, you forgive them for they know not what they do When it’s family, you accept them, ’cause… Are you who they say you are? When a child is born the family rejoices and they anticipate the wonderful things they will do in this world.… Growing with your marriage Oh how I love spring beautiful flowers, rain, sunshine and warmth everything about this season is wonderful. It is a… Who do you believe? On the days leading to the end of my pregnancy,  like most women I was anxious about the safe delivery… Our First To my baby The one thing we pray for, is that we do not give you a childhood you will… Is submission still relevant? Today I’m tackling the contentious subject of submission. Most ladies cringe when the topic of submission comes up, mainly because… New Member – Answered Prayer Dear daughter I love your soft curly hair, soft skin, the precious smile especially when you are asleep. I even… Subscribe Be the first to get notified on new posts, get first dibs on giveaways and more! NameEmail* Instagram
